you can’t just complete erase your memories. It doesn’t work that way, you can only hope it fades. there will be a point where everything will just trigger it and would give you flashbacks. but, if you’re patient in time you this would be lessen. you just need to be patient and accept that for everything that has happened, this is for the best.
in theory, you cannot complete leave something empty. for example a jar filled with water. if you dry out the water is it empty? in my opinion, it’s not. it is still filled with air. so for this realization. for ones memory to be completely forgotten. it must be change.
funny how i conclude that for me to get over this memories and feelings i must have a new one. someone to give me new memories to cherish. someone to share the pain and struggles of everyday. someone to share the laugh and love that i have. so i am here again with a question. how can you say its not a “rebound”?
i think you call it a rebound when you’re only doing it coz’ you still have strong feelings for the past and you wanted to suppressed that by having a relationship with no feelings or affection towards with. this is not true in my situation, i have strong affections for her. i want to see her smile, be there when she cries and hold her when is cold.
the problem is! she won’t let me. I’m not sure what to do anymore.